Terms of use

You are reading this blog (and my books) at your own risks and of your own free will. I am not a professional, just someone who lived with a psychopath for fifteen years. My advice is based on my own experience. Your mileage may vary.

Reserve Rights

I reserve the right to do what I want with my blog and my books: shut the blog down, unpublish the books, or change any term of use at my own discretion.

Use of the Word "Psychopath"

I am using very loosely the word “psychopath” on my blog and in my books to refer to psychopaths, narcissists and sociopaths. These personality disorders share a lot of traits, but the difference between them is not the topic of this blog (and these books).

Copyright Policy

Unless otherwise noted, I am the legal copyright holder of all material on this blog and in my books. You cannot use it to reprint or publish without my written consent.

Advertisers and Sponsors

If one day there is advertising or sponsoring on this blog, and if you buy or use a product of service based on a link from this site, you must take action and resolve any issues with that exact company. I am not taking any responsability.

Hold Harmless

I am not providing any medical, legal, or other professional advice. If you do try anything I say, please note that you are doing it at your own risk.

Letters to the Editor

I’d love to hear from you. Use the contact form on my About page to communicate with me. I won’t publish anything you tell me, but I might spin what you tell me as an anonymous example in upcoming articles or books.

Privacy Statement

Your information is safe with me. I will not sell it nor put it on spam lists.


I moderate every comment. Any vulgarity or inappropriate conduct in the comments will not be tolerated, and they might not be published.